Boys Will Be Boys
Two boys, for me, has brought new meaning to the term
double trouble. Sure, they look sweet in the photos... but they do get wild! Now that baby boy is getting bigger and older, they are starting to play more together. But that also means, they fight some now, too.
We got them both a new toy the other day. Little man found the baby's new toy and started playing with it. Ok, no problem... until baby boy notices. Then he's screaming because he wants his toy. So I break it up and remind little man he has a new toy, also. Everything should be great now, right? Haha,
no! Baby boy then wants his big brother's new toy, so they start to fight over it. A 3 year old and a 10 month old... fighting over toys. What will I do when they get older? When they become teens? Oh geez. I'm trying hard to help teach them now to share. For the baby, it's a bit hard... but little man is starting to get the idea and has been doing a bit better on sharing. But he has some toys that are
special to him he refuses to share, so I tell him to keep them in his room so the baby can't get them.
Sometimes I wonder... if I had gotten a girl like I wanted when I first realized I was pregnant with #2, would it be different? My brother and I are the same age difference as my boys... we never had this problem. But maybe because it was a boy/girl, whereas these are boy/boy.
Anyways... I love my boys. I'll take, and handle, whatever they throw at me. :)
A few times I've gone out, I've had ladies ask me a question that I don't see how they could even
think would be true: "
are your boys twins?" I can't help but look at the tall boy standing next to me and the chubby baby in the stroller before looking back at them confused if they are talking to someone behind me. After confirming no one is behind me, I realize they are speaking to me. I smile nicely and say no. I just find it funny. I don't see how
anyone could look at them and ask that. But then again, I'm not a stranger seeing them for the first time... so maybe? I don't know.